The truth of love

Listening to morning radio stations there is always a relationship based topic ,at least on one of the stations. Something just hit me that most of the Kenyan population, are walking around with half hearts. Even those in relationships will once in a time reminisce about a past relationship or a "first" this soap operas have totally erased and brainwashed our women folk with this fantasy kind of love. So many of us meet Mr. Right along their life's journey but kinda just let him go all because he does not fit into your definition.....,and for our men y'all just want us to fit into your idealistic ideas and want your Egos to be nursed by us. Well remeber it's a two way street.......take a challenge  and take this simple love test

 Does He or She make up part of your conversation constantly?

You are always referring to them or thinking of referring to them concerning a certain way things are done?

You say you are over them but still get offended if they don't keep in touch but you can't say?

You constantly fiddle with your phone to send a message or text to them but never get to actually doing it and as a result have a dozen of drafts addressed to them?

You can't get over the fact that they wronged  you and keep discussing it as such a big deal?

Are you dating someone with the same name,character or complexion?

If most of your answers are yes,learn to stop being typically you. Swallow your pride,extend an olive branch....take a risk. Stop being vengeful....that is so childish..

Grow up! Understand that relationships take work,take effort,and most of all loosing a bit of you, to gain a whole lot of new Him or Her. Love your life but do not be selfish with it.

Don't typecast all of them just because one let you down. 

Hope again, breakdown the walls,

Be kind,

Be courteous,

Give yourself time to heal and time to learn how to love again,

Claim back your heart or accept the trade made and embrace your partners heart,

Stop making excuses for either one of you, 

Let's build better families because we are well known for our family culture and closeness,

Let us not introduce divorce in Kenya, but let us reduce the alarmingly rising statistics,

Stay true to your roots,

Have some etiquette and remember,,,,,the best spouse is your Best Friend.......